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| Jenny26 |
| 10/February/2007 at 9:47am | IP Logged
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Dear all
Can you share with me what is real love and what is real real relationship within the opposite sex?
When we break up, we do not suffer much because we see our lover happy. Is it a real love?
How can we know that a guy love a girl truly, not cheating?
Please share
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| wathana306 |
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Hi Jenny,
I've an article, i think it'll be useful as one of the answer to your question. 
You feel very strongly for another person and want to know if what you're feeling is the real deal. Ask yourself these difficult questions.
Difficulty: Hard
Time Required: About 5 minutes depending on the situation usually a lot longer
Here's How:
1. Ask yourself: 'Would I be willing to let her/him go if I believed it was the best thing?'
2. Ask yourself: 'Am I willing to wait for this person if s/he is not ready to have sex?'
3. Ask yourself: 'Would I feel the same way if s/he gained weight?'
4. Ask yourself: 'Am I willing to sacrifice my dreams to allow her/his dreams to come true?'
5. Ask yourself: 'Do I respect and admire her/him?'
6. Ask yourself: 'Would I feel the same way if s/he got sick?'
7. Ask yourself: 'If you two were in an argument, would you feel the same way?'
8. If you answered 'No' to any of these questions, think about why you gave that answer. Is it a lack of trust? Is it because you're afraid? Is it selfishness? Do you need more time to get to know each other?
9. If you answered 'Yes' to all of these questions, wow, you feel very strongly about this person. It sounds like you're in love!
Tips:
1. If you're wondering if you're in love, this is often because you might base a decision on your answer. Be careful! Decisions should not be based just on the feeling of 'love'. You should also look at respect, commitment and trust.
2. Ask yourself what it means to you if you believe you're in love. Don't put pressure on yourself to define what you're feeling as love. And don't let anyone else pressure you either.
3. If you're not sure of the answer right now. Give it some time and ask yourself these questions a few months or a year down the road. You might be surprised to see how your feelings change.
(source: Mike Hardcastle)
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| Jenny26 |
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Hi wathana
Thank you for this. It is good to do but it works on our mind. How about our partner?
how can it work?
Jenny
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There is no love between a man and a woman. There is only a crush, a feeling of attraction, an infatuation. You can love a song, you can love your parents, or your parents can love the kids. But there is no such thing as love between a man and a woman. 
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| Ana_is_Dating |
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My answer is all yes to this..So, I'm in love truly and whole heartedly. Wow, nice questions to know you're real feelings. Thanks! It was really a great article. Thanks for sharing wathana. 
Dating Better 
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Donβt be so hard on yourself. Everybody has different success quotients and it may be a while before you can actually have a good relationship. Dating Books will aid and equip you Advice good Book dating and how to heighten your personality so that you can attract girls to you.
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